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  • Writer's pictureKrista Kokot

Let's Just Sweep that under the Carpet

Newsflash ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ”ฅ


Humanness alert (is that a word) ๐Ÿ˜


Now and then I find myself slipping back into my old patterns


The patterns of making sure everybody around me is happy because if I think if everybody else is happy then Iโ€™ll be happy too ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ


Dang itโ€™s a hard habit to break - seriouslyyyyyy


Thankfully, Iโ€™m able to recognize quickly when I am slipping down that slope of


performing And fitting


rather than belonging to who I am at the core ๐Ÿ˜


It can happen suddenly,

one day you feel like

youโ€™re speaking your truth

boundaries are in check โœ…

youโ€™re living your own life and then

you hear yourself say something you actually donโ€™t believe


Or


You realize youโ€™ve been saying Yes to something thatโ€™s draining the lifeblood outta ya


you act a certain way that is so-not-who you are

but ๐’๐’†๐’•โ€™๐’” ๐’‹๐’–๐’”๐’• ๐’”๐’˜๐’†๐’†๐’‘ ๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’–๐’๐’…๐’†๐’“ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’„๐’‚๐’“๐’‘๐’†๐’•


Then you wake up one day realizing your life has been

a series of yesโ€™s & trails of times NO needed to be the go to answer


๐‘ฉ๐’–๐’• ๐‘ฎ๐’๐’… ๐’‡๐’๐’“๐’ƒ๐’Š๐’… ๐’˜๐’† ๐’“๐’๐’„๐’Œ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’ƒ๐’๐’‚๐’•


What with โ€œtheyโ€ think?


See there's one huge problem with continually trying to make everybody else happy by trying to please other people & sitting on the fence of complacency......


โ€ฆโ€ฆ..๐šˆ๐š˜๐šž ๐™ฐ๐š‹๐šœ๐š˜๐š•๐šž๐š๐šŽ๐š•๐šข ๐š•๐š˜๐šœ๐šŽ ๐š ๐š‘๐š˜ ๐šข๐š˜๐šž ๐šŠ๐š›๐šŽ ๐šŠ๐šœ ๐šŠ ๐š™๐šŽ๐š›๐šœ๐š˜๐š—,

๐™ฐ๐šœ ๐šŠ ๐š‘๐šž๐š–๐šŠ๐š— ๐™ฑ๐šŽ๐š’๐š—๐š


Iโ€™m not going to go down the road of why we become like that, thatโ€™s not what this post is about because the list is Vast & we each had our own experiences that shaped us


What I am going to say is this. โ€”โ€”>


Once you come to the realization that you actually canโ€™t make everybody happy around you no matter how hard you try


Youโ€™re then able to start focusing on yourself;


doing the necessary internal work needed to see why that desire is within you in the first place - to make everybody else happy around while you push yourself to the side


We must be willing to put ourselves out there, and look in the mirror - in order to heal, help, change, learn and grow


So many times we want a different life,

we want to live in gratefulness, love, joy, peace and deep connection with others


yet we donโ€™t do the work on ourselves in order to evolve past carrying what others think of our decisions


โœจIf you know for 100% itโ€™s time to move forward in your life .... send me a message & letโ€™s get you started โœจ

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